Sex advice fingering

Fingering might be seen by some as a teenage sex act that has no place in adult sex lives, but they would be so very wrong. When done right, fingering is The Best. It's actually also really important for female pleasure and orgasm. And that's where fingering comes in. Anyone who has sex with people with vulvas needs to know how to do it well. So here's an expert fingering guide courtesy of sex experts at Kinkly.

Finger banging is an underrated art. When done right, it's incredibly hot. But whether you're new to sex or an unofficial vagina expert, fingering can be incredibly intimidating — everyone has different preferences, and hey, anatomy is complicated. They say sex is like pizza: When it's bad, it's still good. We beg to differ, especially when it comes to sex with your hands. For the most part, dry, fast, and furious fingering does not feel pleasant. But wet, built-up, and conscious use of hands on pussy?

First things first, make sure your nails are cut short and are soft around the edges. You should also make sure you wash your hands before touching her down there. Start by snuggling up close to her and kissing her on her lips, neck, and breasts. When you do take her jeans off, do it slowly to tease her. Then move your hands up and down her thighs, avoiding her pussy completely.

Read it now, and your partner will be thanking you read: experiencing pleasure later. Reminder: The labia are the lip-like folds of skin around the vaginal opening. Some are short, some are long, some are short on one side and long on the other. Some are wrinkly, others are smooth. Some are puffy and voluptuous, others are thin or sag.