Sex work is a vast spectrum of gender, sexuality, services, providers and clients. But, phallocentric scripts around submissive female sexuality are so entrenched that many simply do not consider the fact that women engage sexual services to satisfy their sexual needs. But they most certainly do. When I set about writing this article I sent out a tweet asking if any women who have paid for a sexual service would like to share their story. The most frequently asked question is why.
Lyna Perez. Age: 24. Hello my name is Mia. If looking for a local girl to have fun with late at night - you found her. I live here in Amsterdam and can do many nice things.
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A short while ago, I put out an emergency appeal OK, a tweet asking people to tell me why they paid for sex. As you can imagine, the results were varied and colourful, and opened up a whole new line of questioning. I, as a straight, cis female, just might not have the Twitter algorithms to reach them. Of course, it might also be because the patriarchy has systematically destroyed female sexuality and made the idea of women purchasing sex — from male or female sex workers — into a source of shame. I mostly saw other dominatrices earlier in my career.
Crissy. Age: 25. I will paint your modest leisure with not modest erotic fantasies and unforgettable rest. Everything you dreamed about, but embarrassed to translate into reality, let's do it together.
Women do pay for sex, and this is why
Let me preface this by saying I grew up in a well-to-do family. In the beginning of my crack addiction I always swore to myself and to anyone who brought up the subject that I would never sell sex for money. Unfortunately, I was very naive and uninformed about the progression of addiction and I did not yet know what desperation felt like. I do not remember my first trick, but I do remember many. I have had sex with as many as 12 men in a day.
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